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May 22, 2023
Be an Even Better School Counselor Next Year- Guaranteed
In this episode, I've got a little trick that's going to ensure that you next-level your school counseling game for next year.
What would it be like to walk away at the end of the school year and not even think about school again until it's time to go back on duty? What would it be like to know for sure that you're going to be up-leveling your game come fall?
What if you had your program components prepared and ready to go in under half an hour?
Even if you've been school counseling for a whi...
What would it be like to walk away at the end of the school year and not even think about school again until it's time to go back on duty? What would it be like to know for sure that you're going to be up-leveling your game come fall?
What if you had your program components prepared and ready to go in under half an hour?
Even if you've been school counseling for a whi...
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May 15, 2023
School Counseling Reflections: When May Feels Like "Too Much"
What's happening in school counseling right now?
Everybody's EXHAUSTED.
Right?
Just absolutely exhausted.
In this episode, I offer my thoughts and ways to maintain perspective in this overwhelming and busy time of year.
Mentioned in this Episode:
**FREE DOWNLOAD- Student Summer/Safety Plan**
School for School Counselors Mastermind
"Get the Job!" Interview Prep Program
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Our goal at School for School Counselors is to help school counselors stay on fire, make huge impacts f...
Everybody's EXHAUSTED.
Right?
Just absolutely exhausted.
In this episode, I offer my thoughts and ways to maintain perspective in this overwhelming and busy time of year.
Mentioned in this Episode:
**FREE DOWNLOAD- Student Summer/Safety Plan**
School for School Counselors Mastermind
"Get the Job!" Interview Prep Program
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Our goal at School for School Counselors is to help school counselors stay on fire, make huge impacts f...
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May 8, 2023
Student Summer Safety Plans
Summer plans are something that you can help students develop to help hold off any "summer slide" of social emotional skills they've built during the school year.
They can also be used to support students who may be living in tenuous circumstances or for other social-emotional concerns.
But how to write them? What do we include? And how can we know that students will even utilize them over the summer?
We'll dive into all this and more in this episode.
Mentioned in this Episode:
**FREE DOWNLO...
They can also be used to support students who may be living in tenuous circumstances or for other social-emotional concerns.
But how to write them? What do we include? And how can we know that students will even utilize them over the summer?
We'll dive into all this and more in this episode.
Mentioned in this Episode:
**FREE DOWNLO...
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May 1, 2023
Unpacking the Role of School Counselors: We're NOT "Adjunct Teachers"
School counselors often fall into a gray area on campus, not quite fitting into the "administrator" or "teacher" category. This can result in ambiguity around our job roles and expectations.
With Teacher Appreciation Week approaching, it's common for school counselors to be included in celebrations despite our jobs being vastly different from classroom teachers. Continuing to group counselors in with teachers could have consequences, so in this episode, we'll explore ways to set ourselves apart...
With Teacher Appreciation Week approaching, it's common for school counselors to be included in celebrations despite our jobs being vastly different from classroom teachers. Continuing to group counselors in with teachers could have consequences, so in this episode, we'll explore ways to set ourselves apart...
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April 24, 2023
Social-Emotional Learning vs Character Education: Are You Teaching the Right One?
The debate regarding the implementation of character education versus social-emotional learning (SEL) has been reignited recently in light of Florida's new Resiliency Education Standards.
Character education emphasizes the development of specific virtues, such as respect, responsibility, and citizenship. Proponents of character education argue that these virtues can be taught in a structured way, and that this approach leads to better academic and social outcomes for students.
On the other han...
Character education emphasizes the development of specific virtues, such as respect, responsibility, and citizenship. Proponents of character education argue that these virtues can be taught in a structured way, and that this approach leads to better academic and social outcomes for students.
On the other han...
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April 17, 2023
WTH Just Happened to School Counseling in Florida??!!?
In this episode, I HOPE I AM WRONG about what appears to be a systematic dismantling of school counselors in Florida. Less than a month ago, the Florida First Lady announced an initiative to "reframe mental health education with a focus on resiliency" and teach students to pull themselves up by their bootstraps.
As part of this initiative, Florida is inviting literally anyone off the street to take a short "counseling course," go into schools, and serve as unqualified "coaches" in lieu of stude...
As part of this initiative, Florida is inviting literally anyone off the street to take a short "counseling course," go into schools, and serve as unqualified "coaches" in lieu of stude...
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April 10, 2023
STOP Talking About ODD! What School Counselors Can Do Instead
Oppositional Defiant Disorder is a term that we hear people toss around in schools all the time. It just seems to be the world we're living in right now: if you don't know what to do with "that kid," if they get persnickety, if they're argumentative, if they don't cooperate, they refuse to complete work, threaten others, etc., etc... everyone seems to feel free to start talking about ODD.
In this episode, I'll talk about the damage that can be done with this type of label, why some prominent ex...
In this episode, I'll talk about the damage that can be done with this type of label, why some prominent ex...
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April 3, 2023
Post-Covid Kids and School Counseling
It seems we're always talking about, "Before COVID... Since COVID... Now that COVID has happened...."
I wanted to bring you an episode about what REALLY happened for students and families during the height of the COVID pandemic. Although a lot of the research is still yet to be released, what we do have so far has given us some really interesting insights as to where students stood during the fury of lockdowns and social distancing, and some of the things they experienced along the way.
Those ...
I wanted to bring you an episode about what REALLY happened for students and families during the height of the COVID pandemic. Although a lot of the research is still yet to be released, what we do have so far has given us some really interesting insights as to where students stood during the fury of lockdowns and social distancing, and some of the things they experienced along the way.
Those ...
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March 30, 2023
When Tragedy Strikes and It Feels Like Too Much
When tragedy strikes, it's hard to know what the next best steps are as school counselors. For so many people, the world feels like a disorienting mess right now.
So what do we do in times like these?
I'm offering some thoughts from our recent School for School Counselors open support & consultation chat.
Because when I learned that many of you were hurting, I immediately dropped all plans and began working to ensure that my team and I could provide space for our colleagues to process their t...
So what do we do in times like these?
I'm offering some thoughts from our recent School for School Counselors open support & consultation chat.
Because when I learned that many of you were hurting, I immediately dropped all plans and began working to ensure that my team and I could provide space for our colleagues to process their t...
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March 27, 2023
Want to Feel Good About Your School Counseling Career? You Need This
Our goal at School for School Counselors is to help school counselors stay on fire, make huge impacts for students, and catalyze change for our roles through grassroots advocacy and collaboration. Listen to get to know more about us and our mission, feel empowered and inspired, and set yourself up for success in the wonderful world of school counseling.
Mentioned in this Episode:
School for School Counselors Mastermind <--- signup/info link
Cited Sources:
Bardhoshi, G., et al. (2022). Novice s...
Mentioned in this Episode:
School for School Counselors Mastermind <--- signup/info link
Cited Sources:
Bardhoshi, G., et al. (2022). Novice s...
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March 13, 2023
The Surprising Truths About Color Psychology and School Counselor Interviews
We get lots of questions from our "Get the Job!" prep program each year, and one of the most popular is, "What do I wear?"
In this episode of the podcast, we'll jump into color choice: how are the colors of your interview attire perceived, and what does the research really say? We'll walk through the research about your color choices, how they may be interpreted, and how you can use the research to your advantage.
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Our goal at School for School Counselors is to help school c...
In this episode of the podcast, we'll jump into color choice: how are the colors of your interview attire perceived, and what does the research really say? We'll walk through the research about your color choices, how they may be interpreted, and how you can use the research to your advantage.
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Our goal at School for School Counselors is to help school c...
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March 6, 2023
The Secret Ingredient in School Counselor Success & Longevity
It's time to focus on something that is really overlooked in our field and that we should be talking more about: it could be the single most important skill that you can develop to not only survive- but thrive!- in your career as a school counselor. Can you guess what it might be?
Self-compassion may seem like kind of a silly thing to be talking about when we think about all of the really big, important, stressful things going on in our school counseling worlds, but research shows us that self-...
Self-compassion may seem like kind of a silly thing to be talking about when we think about all of the really big, important, stressful things going on in our school counseling worlds, but research shows us that self-...
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Feb. 20, 2023
Hot or Not? Universal Screeners & What Most School Counselors Overlook
Let's talk universal screeners. They are a huge topic of interest in school counseling right now, with lots and lots of "buzz": which are the best, which best capture particular trends on campuses, which are evidence-based... on and on and on and on. Everyone wants to talk about universal screeners.
There are, however, a few important caveats that aren't as readily discussed. We're going to hop into those with this episode in an attempt to give you a really comprehensive overview of universal s...
There are, however, a few important caveats that aren't as readily discussed. We're going to hop into those with this episode in an attempt to give you a really comprehensive overview of universal s...
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Feb. 13, 2023
Finding Common Ground With Administrators for School Counseling Satisfaction
So often, finding common ground with your administrator feels difficult. You can't see eye to eye. You feel like they just don't understand where you're coming from and no matter how much you talk, no matter how much you try to convince, no matter how much you try to advocate, your efforts fall on deaf ears.
In this episode, we'll walk through the essentials of establishing common ground with your administrator. Common ground allows you to work together efficiently, effectively, and with colleg...
In this episode, we'll walk through the essentials of establishing common ground with your administrator. Common ground allows you to work together efficiently, effectively, and with colleg...
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Feb. 7, 2023
Happy National School Counseling Week 2023!
You don't need any tips or tricks, and you don't need any tools of the trade this week. You need something appropriate for National School Counseling Week. In this episode, I'm talking off the cuff: no outline, no preconceived thoughts, and no edits.
Straight from the heart.
I just want to tell you how much I appreciate what you do each and every day.
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Our goal at School for School Counselors is to help school counselors stay on fire, make huge impacts for students, and cat...
Straight from the heart.
I just want to tell you how much I appreciate what you do each and every day.
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Our goal at School for School Counselors is to help school counselors stay on fire, make huge impacts for students, and cat...
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Jan. 30, 2023
National School Counseling Week: The Great Divide
The biggest source of division in the school counseling world rears its ugly head this time of year in the form of National School Counseling Week. Why is it divisive? Why should you care? Listen to discover the real culprits and what school counselors can do to change the direction of contentious conversations.
Mentioned in this episode:
School for School Counselors "Get the Job!"
School for School Counselors Mastermind
ASCA Promotional Toolkit & Advocacy Toolkit
Our goal at School for School...
Mentioned in this episode:
School for School Counselors "Get the Job!"
School for School Counselors Mastermind
ASCA Promotional Toolkit & Advocacy Toolkit
Our goal at School for School...
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Jan. 23, 2023
How to Rock Your School Counseling Internship
Many of you are getting started in your spring semester internships, or you may have aspiring school counselors on your campus that could use a little bit of help and- guidance.
In this episode, we'll walk through what I see as the four most IMPORTANT components to a successful school counseling internship. And what you hear may surprise you...
Mentioned in this episode:
School for School Counselors "Get the Job!"
Get the Job Podcast
Rock Your Internship Cheat Sheet (free download!)
Résumé Boo...
In this episode, we'll walk through what I see as the four most IMPORTANT components to a successful school counseling internship. And what you hear may surprise you...
Mentioned in this episode:
School for School Counselors "Get the Job!"
Get the Job Podcast
Rock Your Internship Cheat Sheet (free download!)
Résumé Boo...
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Jan. 16, 2023
Why Most School Counseling Interview Advice is Dead Wrong
About this time of year, you will start seeing lots of folks talking about job interview advice. It will be everywhere. There will be people popping out of the woodwork from this way and that, telling you all the best ways they think you should interview, all the things you should do with your resume... all of the things... based purely on their own personal (and often limited) interviewing experiences.
In this episode, I walk through the content one such "expert" and all the things I heard in ...
In this episode, I walk through the content one such "expert" and all the things I heard in ...
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Jan. 9, 2023
Preparing for Random Acts of Kindness Week? Here's Your Plan
Let's start planning for Random Acts of Kindness Week! This year, RAK Week falls February 14th through the 20th, which is right on the heels of National School Counseling Week. I personally love both of those weeks: the combo is a great opportunity to show the power (or potential) of a comprehensive school counseling program in conjunction with a visible demonstration of how the concepts school counselors emphasize can be implemented in real life for real change.
With that in mind, let's get ou...
With that in mind, let's get ou...
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Jan. 2, 2023
Ready to Rock a New Semester of School Counseling? The New Year (re)Start is HERE!
*BONUS- Listen to the end for an exclusive sneak peek of an awesome upcoming addition to the School for School Counselors world!*
So many school counselors love the start of the spring semester! It feels like a chance for growth, some fresh perspective, and it gives a feeling of potential coming up: that's super exciting!
The start of a new semester also prompts us to take a moment to reevaluate where we stand, where we're headed and what we want to do to get there.
In this episode, we walk t...
So many school counselors love the start of the spring semester! It feels like a chance for growth, some fresh perspective, and it gives a feeling of potential coming up: that's super exciting!
The start of a new semester also prompts us to take a moment to reevaluate where we stand, where we're headed and what we want to do to get there.
In this episode, we walk t...
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Dec. 19, 2022
The REAL Reasons School Counselors Feel Absolutely Exhausted
Feeling completely exhausted as the semester comes to an end? We often want to attribute our feelings of exhaustion or overwhelm to things such as, "It's been a long semester," or, "December is always tough- this is no exception," or, "I'm serving an insane caseload... of course I'm tired!" But really, the roots of your exhaustion run much deeper.
This episode strives to take a moment to validate where you are and empower you to move forward. You can do this!
Mentioned in this episode:
School ...
This episode strives to take a moment to validate where you are and empower you to move forward. You can do this!
Mentioned in this episode:
School ...
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Dec. 5, 2022
Working with "Difficult" Parents: How School Counselors Can Promote Positive Outcomes
Ever run across parents that you just cannot seem to figure out? Parents who are quick to blame, won't return calls, or show no follow-up at home? Parents who rarely make an appearance at school?
Or how about the "helicopter" and "lawnmower parents" that just absolutely insist on paving the easy route for their students, no matter what?
These kinds of parent situations can feel frustrating, for sure, but there are some things you can do to better understand the dynamics of the relationship and...
Or how about the "helicopter" and "lawnmower parents" that just absolutely insist on paving the easy route for their students, no matter what?
These kinds of parent situations can feel frustrating, for sure, but there are some things you can do to better understand the dynamics of the relationship and...
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Nov. 28, 2022
How School Counselors Can Work With Difficult Principal Personalities, Part II (Narcissists and Other Fun Folks)
It sometimes takes one or two different ways of approaching a difficult administrator to provide a change in perspective and develop a good working relationship with that person.
Or many of you may just need to figure out how to just get along with a difficult boss until you can find another campus to move to or different district to work in. You may not have the luxury of moving on if the school climate does not suit you.
This week we add to the profiles of the difficult personalities we disc...
Or many of you may just need to figure out how to just get along with a difficult boss until you can find another campus to move to or different district to work in. You may not have the luxury of moving on if the school climate does not suit you.
This week we add to the profiles of the difficult personalities we disc...
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Nov. 21, 2022
How School Counselors Can Work With Difficult Principal Personalities
We spend more than half our waking lives at work. When you have to spend that time working with a difficult personality, it can make the days go by so slowly! In this episode, I outline three difficult principal personality types and how school counselors can approach each in a way that is mutually beneficial.
Mentioned in this episode:
Better Than Black Friday Event
"Get the Job!" Interview Prep Program
Our goal at School for School Counselors is to help school counselors stay on fire, make h...
Mentioned in this episode:
Better Than Black Friday Event
"Get the Job!" Interview Prep Program
Our goal at School for School Counselors is to help school counselors stay on fire, make h...