School for School Counselors Podcast
Why School Counselors Feel Like They’re Failing (Even When They’re Not)
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June 16, 2025

Why School Counselors Feel Like They’re Failing (Even When They’re Not)

Still feeling unsure- even with experience under your belt? This episode explains why doubt might be the best sign you’re doing the job well, not a reason to second-guess yourself. In this episode, we’re pulling back the curtain on what that uncertainty in school counseling really means. We’ll talk about the invisible labor of school counseling, what the research says about feedback-poor environments, and how self-doubt often shows up right when your skills are leveling up. You’ll learn: Why exp...
It’s Summer! So Why Can’t School Counselors Actually Relax?
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June 9, 2025

It’s Summer! So Why Can’t School Counselors Actually Relax?

You turned in your keys, packed up your office, and told yourself this summer would be a reset. But instead of relaxing, you feel… off. Either you can’t sit still, or you’ve completely shut down. Sound familiar? In this episode, we’re talking about what’s really going on when school counselors can’t seem to rest after the school year ends. We’ll explore the biological stress cycle, the emotional aftermath of constant crisis response, and why your body might still be on high alert... even if your...
How School Counseling’s Best Intentions Turned Against Us
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June 2, 2025

How School Counseling’s Best Intentions Turned Against Us

You followed the model. You tracked the data. You did everything “right.” So why does it still feel wrong? In this episode, we talk about how school counseling’s best intentions became a trap, and what to do when the map you were given stops working. If you’re tired of measuring your worth by minutes and metrics, this one’s for you. Mentioned in this episode: Episode 4, "Your Data Does Not Define Your Worth as a School Counselor" ********************************* ⭐️ Want support with r...
Why Some School Counselors Get Ignored and Others Don’t
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May 26, 2025

Why Some School Counselors Get Ignored and Others Don’t

Why do some school counselors get a seat at the table while others get sidelined, no matter how qualified they are? In this episode, we’re breaking down what actually builds trust with school leaders and how to develop the on-the-fly fluency and presence that turn you into the go-to, not the afterthought. ----- Being good at your job isn’t always enough. You can have the training, the data, and a deep commitment to students... and still get left out of the decision-making process on your campus....
5 School Counseling Mistakes That’ll Bite You in August
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May 19, 2025

5 School Counseling Mistakes That’ll Bite You in August

What you forget in May will come back to bite you in August. In this episode, we cover 5 school counseling mistakes that cause chaos when the year starts- and how to avoid them while you still can. You’re running on fumes. May is chaos. And the last thing you want is another “end-of-year checklist.” But here’s the truth: what you forget now will turn into a full-on mess in August. We’re walking through 5 school counseling mistakes that seem small in May but turn into massive headaches when the n...
Should I Quit My School Counseling Job?
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May 13, 2025

Should I Quit My School Counseling Job?

You’ve been holding it in all year. The long hours, the invisible work, the constant pressure to stay calm while everything around you feels like it’s unraveling... And now that the school year’s winding down, one question keeps echoing louder than the rest: “Can I really do this again next year?” In this deeply personal episode, I’m not here to hand you a checklist or tell you what to do. I’m here as a fellow counselor, walking through the same hard questions- right alongside you. We’ll talk...
When You Love School Counseling But Hate How It Feels
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May 5, 2025

When You Love School Counseling But Hate How It Feels

You love school counseling. You believe in the mission. But right now, it just isn't feeling right. If you’ve been wondering whether you’re burned out, questioning if you can make it through another year, or feeling disconnected from the work you once loved... this episode is for you. In this episode, we talk about: Why April and May hit school counselors especially hard The difference between burnout and professional fatigue Five evidence-based strategies to protect your energy, motivation, and...
The Three Types of School Counselors: Which One Are You?
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April 28, 2025

The Three Types of School Counselors: Which One Are You?

⭐️ Want support with real-world strategies that actually work on your campus? We’re doing that every day in the School for School Counselors Mastermind . Come join us! ⭐️ ********************************** Ever meet another school counselor and realize halfway through the conversation… you’re not doing the same job at all? It’s not your imagination! Right now, the title "school counselor" covers very different realities- and depending on which kind you’re seen as, your future in this profession ...
When Behavior Intervention Just Feels... Wrong
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April 21, 2025

When Behavior Intervention Just Feels... Wrong

⭐️ Want support with real-world strategies that actually work on your campus? We’re doing that every day in the School for School Counselors Mastermind . Come join us! ⭐️ ********************************** Behavior charts. Consequence ladders. ABC data. They’re everywhere- and school counselors are often expected to be in the middle of it. But what happens when the behaviorist framework you're handed feels completely misaligned with your counseling instincts? What if you’re tired of being the “b...
Behavior Plans, Explained
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April 14, 2025

Behavior Plans, Explained

⭐️ Want support with real-world strategies that actually work on your campus? We’re doing that every day in the School for School Counselors Mastermind . Come join us! ⭐️ ********************************** You’ve been looped into a student’s behavior. The teacher wants it fixed. Admin wants a behavior plan. And now everyone’s looking at you. If you’ve ever found yourself thinking, “I don’t even know where to start,” this episode is for you. We’re walking through the full behavior intervention pr...
What Schools Get Wrong About ADHD
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April 7, 2025

What Schools Get Wrong About ADHD

⭐️ Want support with real-world strategies that actually work on your campus? We’re doing that every day in the School for School Counselors Mastermind . Come join us! ⭐️ ********************************** We’ve got to stop calling it "defiance" when it’s actually dysregulation . In this episode, we’re pulling back the curtain on what ADHD really is- and why the strategies we often use in schools aren’t cutting it. You’ll learn: Why ADHD isn’t a behavior problem (and what it actually is) The cri...
Beyond the Behavior Bouncer
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April 4, 2025

Beyond the Behavior Bouncer

⭐️ Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind today to become the school counselor you were meant to be . ⭐️ ********************************** In the previous episode, we talked about what happens when a behavior referral isn’t really about the student- and how counselors can shift out of the “removal service” role and into real consultation. But what if that doesn’t feel realistic? This bonus episode tackles the pushback: What if your admin expects you to remove students, no questions as...
The Behavior Problem School Counselors Aren't Supposed to Talk About
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March 31, 2025

The Behavior Problem School Counselors Aren't Supposed to Talk About

⭐️ Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind today to become the school counselor you were meant to be . ⭐️ ********************************** You get the call: “Can you come get this student?” But when you walk in, it’s clear- this isn’t really about the kid. It’s about stress. Dysregulation. Maybe even burnout. For the adult . And if school counselors keep stepping in without asking bigger questions, we’re not solving the problem… we’re just keeping the cycle going. In this episode, we’...
Do Social Stories Really Work?
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March 24, 2025

Do Social Stories Really Work?

⭐️ Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind today to become the school counselor you were meant to be . ⭐️ ********************************** You’ve been asked to read a Social Story to a student—again. And if you're being honest… you’re not sure it’s actually doing anything. In this episode, we’re taking a closer look at the research behind Social Stories: Where they came from and what they were actually designed to do What the peer-reviewed literature says about their effectiveness (an...
Bullying or Just Drama? The School Counselor’s Guide to Getting It Right
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March 17, 2025

Bullying or Just Drama? The School Counselor’s Guide to Getting It Right

➡️ JOIN THE WAITLIST FOR THE BEHAVIOR BREAKTHROUGH KIT! Every school counselor has been there—stuck in a conversation where the word "bullying" is thrown around, but something feels off. A parent demands action because their child was left out of a game at recess. A teacher sends a referral for a “bullying” case that turns out to be a one-time disagreement. Meanwhile, students facing real, targeted harassment often go unnoticed in the noise. So, how do you cut through the confusion and handle th...
Relational Aggression and Bullying
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March 11, 2025

Relational Aggression and Bullying

"It's just middle school drama." "Ignore them, and it'll stop." "You're gonna have to toughen up." Sound familiar? These are the kinds of dismissive responses students often hear when they report bullying or relational aggression—and they’re not helping. In fact, with 1 in 5 students reporting being bullied and 41% of those fearing it will happen again , we’ve got serious work to do. In this episode, we’re diving deep into relational aggression and cyberbullying , breaking down what makes these ...
How to Handle Student Behavior Like a Pro
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March 3, 2025

How to Handle Student Behavior Like a Pro

You know that moment—the banshee scream echoes down the hall, and suddenly, all eyes are on you. The walkies go off, teachers are calling your name, and once again, you’re expected to drop everything and handle the latest behavior meltdown. If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. This time of year, behavior issues ramp up, and school counselors often find themselves at the center of the storm. But here’s the real talk—most of the advice out there on behavior intervention? It’s not designed fo...
The Fat-Free Fix That’s Failing School Counselors
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Feb. 24, 2025

The Fat-Free Fix That’s Failing School Counselors

As busy school counselors, we often find ourselves reaching for quick-fix solutions to help our students. But are these convenient resources truly serving our students' needs? In this episode, I challenge the effectiveness of "print and pray" materials that have become way too common in our field. Thinking back to the misguided "fat-free" diet craze of the 90s, I explore how mass-produced school counseling worksheets and activities might be doing more harm than good. Because while they promise q...
How to Make Your School Feel Less Toxic (No Admin Approval Needed)
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Feb. 10, 2025

How to Make Your School Feel Less Toxic (No Admin Approval Needed)

Can small acts of kindness truly transform a school environment? Or is that just wishful thinking? As we dive into Random Acts of Kindness Week , I’m sharing my firsthand experiences as a school counselor navigating workplace challenges—and how I discovered that the simplest gestures can have the biggest impact on school culture. Imagine a school where stress doesn’t rule the day, burnout isn’t lurking around every corner, and job satisfaction actually exists —all because kindness became a delib...
School Counselors Deserve Better! The Advocacy Problem No One Admits
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Feb. 3, 2025

School Counselors Deserve Better! The Advocacy Problem No One Admits

* Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind today to become the school counselor you were meant to be .* Happy National School Counseling Week! Or maybe not? There’s a growing divide in how school counselors feel about this week—some dive in with enthusiasm, while others don't want to be bothered. And honestly, after what I’ve been seeing lately, I get it. In this episode, I talk through the uncomfortable truths about school counseling advocacy : what’s missing, why it matters, and how we...
Mastering Caseloads in School Counseling
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Jan. 27, 2025

Mastering Caseloads in School Counseling

* Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind today to become the school counselor you were meant to be .* *Leave a voicemail here for a chance to be featured in an upcoming podcast episode!* In this episode of the School for School Counselors podcast, host Steph Johnson discusses managing school counseling caseloads efficiently. Using an iconic conveyer belt tv scene as an analogy, she highlights the overwhelmed feeling counselors often experience and the need to triage student needs effec...
A Realistic Approach to National School Counseling Week
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Jan. 20, 2025

A Realistic Approach to National School Counseling Week

* Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind today to become the school counselor you were meant to be .* In this episode, Steph Johnson, a full-time school counselor, talks through National School Counseling Week, sharing her thoughts on its purpose and the many mixed emotions it stirs among school counselors. Steph addresses various reactions from excitement to frustration and offers simple strategies for observing the week on campus. She highlights the importance of effective advocacy, ...
Stop Using AI Like This: What Every Counselor Should Know
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Jan. 13, 2025

Stop Using AI Like This: What Every Counselor Should Know

* Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind today to become the school counselor you were meant to be .* In this episode, Steph Johnson continues exploring how artificial intelligence is influencing school counseling. She unpacks the risks of depending too much on AI-generated tools and stresses the need for strong professional judgment to evaluate the quality and relevance of resources. Steph also dives into the ethical challenges posed by AI- including protecting student privacy- and un...
A.I. and School Counseling
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Jan. 6, 2025

A.I. and School Counseling

* Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind today to become the school counselor you were meant to be .* In this episode of the School for School Counselors podcast, host Steph Johnson addresses the growing trend of integrating artificial intelligence (AI) in school counseling. Steph shares her concerns about the premature adoption of AI tools and their potential to undermine the core values and techniques of effective counseling. She emphasizes the importance of human connection, evidenc...